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Nate Russell: Nate Russell moved page Talk:Parenting after Separation to Talk:Parenting Apart: new title for edition 2020

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Nate Russell moved page Talk:Parenting after Separation to Talk:Parenting Apart: new title for edition 2020

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Nate Russell at 00:08, 26 June 2013

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			==Reshuffled placement of DOJ parenting plan resources==
			It was great to have Justin's suggestions for this piece, so what I have done to keep the book as short as possible (it being already almost 700 pages) and to preserve the focus on parenting after separation and parenting plans (rather than also child protection, child support, or grandparents resources) is break off some of the less related resources and suggest them to the editors of [[Child Support \| child support]], [[Family Violence\|child protection]] and [[Children's Caregivers and Extended Family \|grandparent resources sections]]:
			I also suggest we place the resource links under "Recommended reading for parents" rather than in the section on "Programs and agencies", given that the DOJ website is not a program or an agency (the same way the other resources listed there are) so much as a host of information.
			Now, because we are just starting out and kick-starting the collaborative process, I've gone ahead and made the changes in my role as a custodial/managing editor. As subject editors get more comfortable, I won't make substantive changes like this, and I would propose these adjustments in this discussion forum. However, I am also aware that it is probably helpful for me to be more hands-on at this early stage so you can see how I make these changes, and get used to the kind of considerations we have made (led by JP) along the way. Ultimately, however, I will always defer to the editors of this section. Please have a look to see what the end result is --[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 17:08, 25 June 2013 (PDT)
	==Parenting plans==		==Parenting plans==
	'''From Justin''' via [[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 16:01, 25 June 2013 (PDT) : below is a first draft for editing purposes on the inclusion of info from JP’s blog in the resources section of the Parenting After Separation page. It is my suggestion that this be placed below the Provincial Family Justice Centre info but before the Recommended Reading for Parents. If somebody would like to test this in the Wiki to ensure the links work (ie. in the discussion feed), please do so and advise '''[That's what I am doing here. The links are good, and I only had to clean up the bullet points --[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 16:01, 25 June 2013 (PDT)]'''. Of course, edit away at this suggested edit as well! Thank you.		'''From Justin''' via [[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 16:01, 25 June 2013 (PDT) : below is a first draft for editing purposes on the inclusion of info from JP’s blog in the resources section of the Parenting After Separation page. It is my suggestion that this be placed below the Provincial Family Justice Centre info but before the Recommended Reading for Parents. If somebody would like to test this in the Wiki to ensure the links work (ie. in the discussion feed), please do so and advise '''[That's what I am doing here. The links are good, and I only had to clean up the bullet points --[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 16:01, 25 June 2013 (PDT)]'''. Of course, edit away at this suggested edit as well! Thank you.

Nate Russell: /* Parenting plans */

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Parenting plans

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	==Parenting plans==		==Parenting plans==
	'''From Justin''' via [[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 16:01, 25 June 2013 (PDT) : below is a first draft for editing purposes on the inclusion of info from JP’s blog in the resources section of the Parenting After Separation page. It is my suggestion that this be placed below the Provincial Family Justice Centre info but before the Recommended Reading for Parents. If somebody would like to test this in the Wiki to ensure the links work (ie. in the discussion feed), please do so and advise '''[That's what I am doing here. The links are good, and I only had to clean up the bullet points --[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 16:01, 25 June 2013 (PDT)]'''. Of course, edit away at this suggested edit as well! Thank you.		'''From Justin''' via [[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 16:01, 25 June 2013 (PDT) : below is a first draft for editing purposes on the inclusion of info from JP’s blog in the resources section of the Parenting After Separation page. It is my suggestion that this be placed below the Provincial Family Justice Centre info but before the Recommended Reading for Parents. If somebody would like to test this in the Wiki to ensure the links work (ie. in the discussion feed), please do so and advise '''[That's what I am doing here. The links are good, and I only had to clean up the bullet points --[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 16:01, 25 June 2013 (PDT)]'''. Of course, edit away at this suggested edit as well! Thank you.
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	The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html federal Department of Justice] website has a number of high-quality resources that may be helpful. It has a [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/index.html Family Law] section in which you'll find a library of department publications and a wide variety of research papers about parenting after separation, the costs of high-conflict separation, and other topics relating to a child's well-being and outcomes following separation. These papers are of a uniformly high quality and are well worth the read.		The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html federal Department of Justice] website has a number of high-quality resources that may be helpful. It has a [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/index.html Family Law] section in which you'll find a library of department publications and a wide variety of research papers about parenting after separation, the costs of high-conflict separation, and other topics relating to a child's well-being and outcomes following separation. These papers are of a uniformly high quality and are well worth the read.
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	The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html federal Department of Justice] backgrounder says that a PDF version of the resources listed above will be available soon.		The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html federal Department of Justice] backgrounder says that a PDF version of the resources listed above will be available soon.
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	==Test with Justin==		==Test with Justin==
	'''NB: Nate and Justin are testing how and where to place this update regarding parenting plans'''--[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 12:57, 19 June 2013 (PDT)		'''NB: Nate and Justin are testing how and where to place this update regarding parenting plans'''--[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 12:57, 19 June 2013 (PDT)

Nate Russell at 23:01, 25 June 2013

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			==Parenting plans==
			'''From Justin''' via [[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 16:01, 25 June 2013 (PDT) : below is a first draft for editing purposes on the inclusion of info from JP’s blog in the resources section of the Parenting After Separation page. It is my suggestion that this be placed below the Provincial Family Justice Centre info but before the Recommended Reading for Parents. If somebody would like to test this in the Wiki to ensure the links work (ie. in the discussion feed), please do so and advise '''[That's what I am doing here. The links are good, and I only had to clean up the bullet points --[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 16:01, 25 June 2013 (PDT)]'''. Of course, edit away at this suggested edit as well! Thank you.
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			<blockquote>
			The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html federal Department of Justice] website has a number of high-quality resources that may be helpful. It has a [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/index.html Family Law] section in which you'll find a library of department publications and a wide variety of research papers about parenting after separation, the costs of high-conflict separation, and other topics relating to a child's well-being and outcomes following separation. These papers are of a uniformly high quality and are well worth the read.
			In the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/index.html Family Law] section, there is a link to the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/parent/index.html Custody and Parenting page which links to four sub-categories of information. These are:
			*[http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/parent/plan.html Create a parenting plan], which has links to three useful resources pages,
			**[http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/parent/mp-fdp/index.html Making Parenting Plans],
			**[http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/parent/ppc-lvppp/index.html Parenting Plan Checklist] and
			**[http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/parent/ppt-ecppp/index.html Parenting Plan Tool]
			*[http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/parent/pc-pe.html Protect your children]
			*[http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/parent/kh-ae.html Help your kids cope]
			*[http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/parent/grand.html Information for grandparents]
			There is a [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/child-enfant/look-rech.asp child support calculator] located in the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/fl-df/index.html Family Law] section.
			The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html federal Department of Justice] backgrounder says that a PDF version of the resources listed above will be available soon.
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	==Test with Justin==		==Test with Justin==
	'''NB: Nate and Justin are testing how and where to place this update regarding parenting plans'''--[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 12:57, 19 June 2013 (PDT)		'''NB: Nate and Justin are testing how and where to place this update regarding parenting plans'''--[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 12:57, 19 June 2013 (PDT)

Justin Werb at 23:56, 19 June 2013

2013-06-19T23:56:13Z

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	The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Department of Justice] has continued to expand its excellent Supporting Families Experiencing Separation and Divorce Initiative with three important new public legal education resources designed to help separating parents create parenting plans for their children.		The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Department of Justice] has continued to expand its excellent Supporting Families Experiencing Separation and Divorce Initiative with three important new public legal education resources designed to help separating parents create parenting plans for their children.

	If you go to the [[Family Law page]] on the Department's nicely redesigned ''website'' and click on the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html "Custody and Parenting"] link you'll see four main subjects:		If you go to the [http://www.wikipedia.com Family Law page] on the Department's nicely redesigned ''website'' and click on the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html "Custody and Parenting"] link you'll see four main subjects:
	Create a parenting plan		Create a parenting plan
	Protect your children		Protect your children
	Help your kids cope		Help your kids cope
	Information for grandparents		Information for grandparents
	Clicking on the "Create a parenting plan" [[link]] will take you to a new page with links to the three new resources, Making Parenting Plans, a Parenting Plan Checklist and a Parenting Plan Tool. The Department's backgrounder says this about the first and third resources:		Clicking on the "Create a parenting plan" link will take you to a new page with links to the three new resources, Making Parenting Plans, a Parenting Plan Checklist and a Parenting Plan Tool. The Department's backgrounder says this about the first and third resources:
	"Making Plans gives parents information about what issues they need to address when coming up with a parenting arrangement after divorce (ex. schedule for time with children), as well as the processes that they can use to come up with this arrangement (ex. mediation, negotiation). This product promotes agreements between parents by emphasizing the importance of good communication, reducing conflict, and building a co-parenting relationship that focuses on the best interests of children.		"Making Plans gives parents information about what issues they need to address when coming up with a parenting arrangement after divorce (ex. schedule for time with children), as well as the processes that they can use to come up with this arrangement (ex. mediation, negotiation). This product promotes agreements between parents by emphasizing the importance of good communication, reducing conflict, and building a co-parenting relationship that focuses on the best interests of children.
	"The Parenting Plan Tool is a companion product to Making Plans. It is a practical guide to help parents develop a parenting plan. The Parenting Plan Tool contains sample clauses that parents can use as a starting point in developing their parenting plan."		"The Parenting Plan Tool is a companion product to Making Plans. It is a practical guide to help parents develop a parenting plan. The Parenting Plan Tool contains sample clauses that parents can use as a starting point in developing their parenting plan."

Justin Werb: /* Test with Justin */

2013-06-19T23:55:06Z

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	The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Department of Justice] has continued to expand its excellent Supporting Families Experiencing Separation and Divorce Initiative with three important new public legal education resources designed to help separating parents create parenting plans for their children.		The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Department of Justice] has continued to expand its excellent Supporting Families Experiencing Separation and Divorce Initiative with three important new public legal education resources designed to help separating parents create parenting plans for their children.

	If you go to the [[Family Law page]] on the Department's nicely redesigned website and click on the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html "Custody and Parenting"] link you'll see four main subjects:		If you go to the [[Family Law page]] on the Department's nicely redesigned ''website'' and click on the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html "Custody and Parenting"] link you'll see four main subjects:
	Create a parenting plan		Create a parenting plan
	Protect your children		Protect your children

Justin Werb: /* Test with Justin */

2013-06-19T23:47:36Z

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	Help your kids cope		Help your kids cope
	Information for grandparents		Information for grandparents
	Clicking on the "Create a parenting plan" link will take you to a new page with links to the three new resources, Making Parenting Plans, a Parenting Plan Checklist and a Parenting Plan Tool. The Department's backgrounder says this about the first and third resources:		Clicking on the "Create a parenting plan" [[link]] will take you to a new page with links to the three new resources, Making Parenting Plans, a Parenting Plan Checklist and a Parenting Plan Tool. The Department's backgrounder says this about the first and third resources:
	"Making Plans gives parents information about what issues they need to address when coming up with a parenting arrangement after divorce (ex. schedule for time with children), as well as the processes that they can use to come up with this arrangement (ex. mediation, negotiation). This product promotes agreements between parents by emphasizing the importance of good communication, reducing conflict, and building a co-parenting relationship that focuses on the best interests of children.		"Making Plans gives parents information about what issues they need to address when coming up with a parenting arrangement after divorce (ex. schedule for time with children), as well as the processes that they can use to come up with this arrangement (ex. mediation, negotiation). This product promotes agreements between parents by emphasizing the importance of good communication, reducing conflict, and building a co-parenting relationship that focuses on the best interests of children.
	"The Parenting Plan Tool is a companion product to Making Plans. It is a practical guide to help parents develop a parenting plan. The Parenting Plan Tool contains sample clauses that parents can use as a starting point in developing their parenting plan."		"The Parenting Plan Tool is a companion product to Making Plans. It is a practical guide to help parents develop a parenting plan. The Parenting Plan Tool contains sample clauses that parents can use as a starting point in developing their parenting plan."
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	Another very useful feature of the Family Law page is the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Child Support Calculator]. You can't go wrong when you get your calculations from the horse's mouth.		Another very useful feature of the Family Law page is the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Child Support Calculator]. You can't go wrong when you get your calculations from the horse's mouth.


	== New sample parenting plans from DOJ ==		== New sample parenting plans from DOJ ==

Nate Russell at 20:10, 19 June 2013

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	NB: Nate and Justin are testing how and where to place this update regarding parenting plans--[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 12:57, 19 June 2013 (PDT)		'''NB: Nate and Justin are testing how and where to place this update regarding parenting plans'''--[[User:Nate Russell\|Nate Russell]] ([[User talk:Nate Russell\|talk]]) 12:57, 19 June 2013 (PDT)

	The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Department of Justice] has continued to expand its excellent Supporting Families Experiencing Separation and Divorce Initiative with three important new public legal education resources designed to help separating parents create parenting plans for their children.		The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Department of Justice] has continued to expand its excellent Supporting Families Experiencing Separation and Divorce Initiative with three important new public legal education resources designed to help separating parents create parenting plans for their children.

Justin Werb at 20:08, 19 June 2013

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	These resources all give good, practical advice about planning for the care of children after separation and are well worth reading. The Department's backgrounder says that a PDF version of the resources will be available soon; that may be easier to use than the web-based version which breaks the resources into individual pages that can be somewhat difficult to browse through.		These resources all give good, practical advice about planning for the care of children after separation and are well worth reading. The Department's backgrounder says that a PDF version of the resources will be available soon; that may be easier to use than the web-based version which breaks the resources into individual pages that can be somewhat difficult to browse through.

	Another very useful feature of the Family Law page is the Child Support Calculator. You can't go wrong when you get your calculations from the horse's mouth.		Another very useful feature of the Family Law page is the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Child Support Calculator]. You can't go wrong when you get your calculations from the horse's mouth.

Justin Werb at 20:07, 19 June 2013

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	The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Department of Justice] has continued to expand its excellent Supporting Families Experiencing Separation and Divorce Initiative with three important new public legal education resources designed to help separating parents create parenting plans for their children.		The [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html Department of Justice] has continued to expand its excellent Supporting Families Experiencing Separation and Divorce Initiative with three important new public legal education resources designed to help separating parents create parenting plans for their children.

	If you go to the [[Family Law page]] on the Department's nicely redesigned website and click on the "Custody and Parenting" link you'll see four main subjects:		If you go to the [[Family Law page]] on the Department's nicely redesigned website and click on the [http://canada.justice.gc.ca/eng/index.html "Custody and Parenting"] link you'll see four main subjects:
	Create a parenting plan		Create a parenting plan
	Protect your children		Protect your children