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Difference between revisions of "Children and Parenting after Separation"

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There is a big difference between seeking custody or guardianship and seeking access or contact. In custody cases, the courts are concerned with the fundamental living arrangements and the health and welfare of the children. In court proceedings for access or contact, the parent usually has custody and no one is challenging the right of the parent to control his or her child's upbringing. As a result, the court will place an even greater emphasis on the parent's discretion and judgment.
There is a big difference between seeking custody or guardianship and seeking access or contact. In custody cases, the courts are concerned with the fundamental living arrangements and the health and welfare of the children. In court proceedings for access or contact, the parent usually has custody and no one is challenging the right of the parent to control his or her child's upbringing. As a result, the court will place an even greater emphasis on the parent's discretion and judgment.


Grandparents and other non-parents do not have a presumptive right of access to or contact with children under either the ''[[Divorce Act]]'' or the ''[[Family Law Act]]'', but they can ask the court to make an order giving them access to their grandchildren. The 1993 British Columbia case of ''[http://canlii.ca/t/1djbt Chapman v. Chapman]'', 1993 CanLII 2598 (BC SC) sets out the general rules governing applications for access or contact by non-parents:
Grandparents and other non-parents do not have a presumptive right of access to or contact with children under either the ''[[Divorce Act]]'' or the ''[[Family Law Act]]'', but they can ask the court to make an order giving them access to or cotnact with their grandchildren. The 1993 British Columbia case of ''[http://canlii.ca/t/1djbt Chapman v. Chapman]'', 1993 CanLII 2598 (BC SC) sets out the general rules governing applications for access or contact by non-parents:


*The burden is on the non-parent to show that the proposed access or contact is in the child's best interests.
*The burden is on the non-parent to show that the proposed access or contact is in the child's best interests.
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*Non-parents may also have to demonstrate that they offer some positive benefit to the child before access or contact will be allowed, and they must demonstrate that the child's time with them will be in the child's best interests. Normally, grandparents and other non-parents are allowed only the amount of access or contact that the guardians will agree to.
*Non-parents may also have to demonstrate that they offer some positive benefit to the child before access or contact will be allowed, and they must demonstrate that the child's time with them will be in the child's best interests. Normally, grandparents and other non-parents are allowed only the amount of access or contact that the guardians will agree to.


Where both guardians are still in the picture, the court will usually require that grandparents' access or contact occur during the time that their child has the grandchild. In other words, maternal grandparents will usually have access or contact, if the court makes the order at all, during the mother's time with the child. Where only one guardian is in the picture, the court will usually determine what access or contact the grandparents ought to have independently of the interests of the guardian.
Where both guardians are still in the picture, the court will usually require that grandparents' access or contact occurs during the time that their child has the grandchild. In other words, maternal grandparents will usually have access or contact, if the court makes the order at all, during the mother's time with the child. Where only one guardian is in the picture, the court will usually determine what access or contact the grandparents ought to have independently of the interests of the guardian.


As with applications for custody or guardianship, grandparents and other non-parents should not be discouraged by the generally pessimistic tone of this discussion. There are numerous cases in which grandparents have been awarded time with their grandchildren; it ''is'' possible to succeed on an application for access or contact.
As with applications for custody or guardianship, grandparents and other non-parents should not be discouraged by the generally pessimistic tone of this discussion. There are numerous cases in which grandparents have been awarded time with their grandchildren; it ''is'' possible to succeed on an application for access or contact.