Difference between revisions of "Behaviour, Boundaries and Privacy after Separation"

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<blockquote><blockquote><blockquote><tt>(ii) the appropriateness of making an order that would require persons in respect of whom the order would apply to cooperate on issues affecting the child;</tt></blockquote></blockquote></blockquote>
<blockquote><blockquote><blockquote><tt>(ii) the appropriateness of making an order that would require persons in respect of whom the order would apply to cooperate on issues affecting the child;</tt></blockquote></blockquote></blockquote>


The part about ''the appropriateness of an arrangement that would require the child's guardians to cooperate'' is really important. Think about it.


Among other things, you will want to avoid:


Complaints to professional organizers.
#making complaints about your ex in their professional capacity to any regulatory bodies, like the College of Physicians and Surgeons, the Association of Clinical Counsellors, the College of Social Workers or the Law Society;
trash talking
#making bogus complaints about your ex to child protection services or the police;
Police, MCFD complaints
#reporting your ex to the Canada Revenue Agency, financial institutions or credit rating agencies;
#making complaints about your ex to their employer;
#badmouthing your ex in social, recreational or cultural clubs; and,
#contacting the media abour your ex, your relationship, your separation or events following your separation.


Here's a helpful suggestion. Act as if everything you write, say or do will find its way into an affidavit.


==Respecting boundaries, respecting privacy==




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change passwords on IOT, email, social media, router
change passwords on IOT, email, social media, router


==Respecting boundaries, respecting privacy==


privacy tips and cautions
privacy tips and cautions