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Difference between revisions of "Behaviour, Boundaries and Privacy after Separation"

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Just as you can reduce the chances of your car getting stolen by locking its doors when you get out, there are a number of proactive things you can do to protect yourself from your ex's misbehaviour. Once it's clear to you that your relationship is coming to an end, you need to start protecting your privacy. This means taking additional steps to protect your physical privacy — changing the locks for your home, for example, even though your ex has given you your keys back — as well as your electronic privacy. You may need to change the passwords or access privileges for your:
Just as you can reduce the chances of your car getting stolen by locking its doors when you get out, there are a number of proactive things you can do to protect yourself from your ex's misbehaviour. Once it's clear to you that your relationship is coming to an end, you need to start protecting your privacy. This means taking additional steps to protect your physical privacy — changing the locks for your home, for example, even though your ex has given you your keys back — as well as your electronic privacy. You may need to change the passwords or access privileges for your:


#smartphone, smartwatch, tablets, computers and other devices;
*smartphone, smartwatch, tablets, computers and other devices,
#home wifi router and personal hotspots;
*home wifi router and personal hotspots,
#home security and surveillance systems, especially security cameras, electronic doorbells and electronic locks;
*home security and surveillance systems, especially security cameras, electronic doorbells and electronic locks,
#wifi-enabled appliances, fixtures and outlets
*wifi-enabled appliances, fixtures and outlets,
#internet, cable and telecommunication service providers;
*internet, cable and telecommunication service providers,
#email accounts, social media accounts and gaming accounts;
*email accounts, social media accounts and gaming accounts,
#subscription-based accounts, like Netflix, Spotify and Crave; and,
*subscription-based accounts, like Netflix, Spotify and Crave, and
#business accounts and services, including electronic banking, credit card and money transfer services, accounting and bookkeeping software, and communication and conferencing services.
*business accounts and services, including electronic banking, credit card and money transfer services, accounting and bookkeeping software, and communication and conferencing services.


You'll also want to disable any location-sharing options or services that may be available for your smartphone, smartwatch and car, or be built-in to your social media accounts. It's hard to remember in this electronic age just how many password-protected accounts and services we have, how many of the devices in our home are connected to the internet, and how many personal accounts our friends and family may have access to. You know how Facebook sometimes sends out reminders to check your privacy settings? You need to do that yourself when your relationship is coming to an end. Take a fresh look at ''everything''.
You'll also want to disable any location-sharing options or services that may be available for your smartphone, smartwatch and car, or be built-in to your social media accounts. It's hard to remember in this electronic age just how many password-protected accounts and services we have, how many of the devices in our home are connected to the internet, and how many personal accounts our friends and family may have access to. You know how Facebook sometimes sends out reminders to check your privacy settings? You need to do that yourself when your relationship is coming to an end. Take a fresh look at ''everything''.