Difference between revisions of "Separation and Separation Agreements"

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First, you can get a lawyer. They might be able to help with negotiating an agreement.
First, you can get a lawyer. They might be able to help with negotiating an agreement.


Second, you can suggest '''mediation'''. (Either with or without the help of lawyers, family justice counsellors, or private mediators.) Or you can suggest a '''collaborative practice''' approach.
Second, you can suggest ways to work out an agreement without going to court. One way is '''mediation'''. This involves meeting with a neutral person, a mediator, who helps you both find a solution you agree on. Or you can suggest a '''collaborative negotiation''' approach. This is a kind of negotiation where you each have your own lawyer and agree you will do everything possible to reach an agreement without going to court. A third way you might suggest is '''arbitration'''. This involves hiring a neutral third party to make decisions about your dispute. You and your spouse agree to be bound by these decisions. [[Mediation and Collaborative Practice|We explain all of these options here]].
 
Third, you can suggest '''arbitration'''. This involves hiring a neutral third party to make decisions about your dispute. You and your spouse agree to be bound by these decisions.


Lastly, you can go to court. Know that this approach will be more expensive, stressful, and adversarial.
Lastly, you can go to court. Know that this approach will be more expensive, stressful, and adversarial.