Difference between revisions of "Children and Parenting after Separation"

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When parents birdnest, the children remain in the same place and it's the parents who do the moving, normally while maintaining separate homes outside the family home.
When parents birdnest, the children remain in the same place and it's the parents who do the moving, normally while maintaining separate homes outside the family home.


The theory underlying this concept is that it is disruptive for children to switch homes every week and that it can be too costly to make sure there's a full set of clothing, toys, books and whatnot in both houses. Birdnesting lets the kids stay in a single home, usually the family home that they've grown up in. Of course, the cost saved by avoiding duplication of the children's clothes and books is offset by the need to maintain two or possibly three homes: the family home, and a home for each of the parents.
The theory underlying this concept is that it is disruptive for children to switch homes every week and that it can be too costly to make sure there's a full set of clothing, toys, books, and whatnot in both houses. Birdnesting lets the kids stay in a single home, usually the family home that they've grown up in. Of course, the cost saved by avoiding duplication of the children's clothes and books is offset by the need to maintain two or possibly three homes: the family home, and a home for each of the parents.


Birdnesting is a term that has been created by lawyers and judges, like the term ''primary residence.'' Birdnesting is not a term you will find in the ''Family Law Act'' or the ''Divorce Act''.
Birdnesting is a term that has been created by lawyers and judges, like the term ''primary residence.'' Birdnesting is not a term you will find in the ''Family Law Act'' or the ''Divorce Act''.

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