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==When should you hire a parenting coordinator?==
==When should you hire a parenting coordinator?==


In some cases, parents agree to hire a parenting coordinator voluntarily, and in other cases a judge orders that the parents hire a parenting coordinator to help them with ongoing disputes.
Under the current law, a parenting coordinator can only be appointed when there is a parenting plan in place as an order of the court or a written agreement of the parties.  


At present, parenting coordinators trained through the [http://www.bcparentingcoordinators.com BC Parenting Coordinators Roster Society] can only be involved when there is a final parenting arrangement in place as a result of a final order or a separation agreement.
Parenting coordinators cannot make fundamental changes to a parenting arrangement, such as guardianship terms, residency or significant changes to the parenting schedule. A parenting coordinator can make adjustments to the parenting schedule and assist with routine parenting decisions, such as extra-curricular activities, participation in special events, routine medical interventions, travel protocols, handling of child-related documents and settlement of disputes over holidays.


Parenting coordinators do not make fundamental changes to a parenting arrangement. While they can and <span class="noglossary">will</span> adjust a parenting schedule from time, they can't decide that a child <span class="noglossary">will</span> live with a different parent and they usually won't make long-lasting changes to a schedule of parenting time or contact. Parenting coordinators need a framework to work with, whether the framework is provided by a court order or an agreement.
Parenting coordinators can help resolve problems about parenting disputes, help parents to communicate more effectively, and coach parents to try and resolve problems themselves. If, with the parenting coordinator's help, the parents are not able to resolve a parenting dispute, the parenting coordinator has the power to make a decision for the parents on issues within the parenting coordinator's authority.
 
Parenting coordinators <span class="noglossary">will</span> make <span class="noglossary">minor</span> adjustments to a parenting schedule as may be required from time to time. They can help resolve problems about parenting disputes, and they <span class="noglossary">will</span> help the parents to communicate with each other more effectively in order to try and resolve problems between them. If, with the parenting coordinator's help, the parents are not able to resolve a dispute, the parenting coordinator will make a decision for the parents.


==How do you pick a parenting coordinator?==
==How do you pick a parenting coordinator?==

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