My Ex Is Not Paying Child Support

Any parent — married or unmarried — of a dependant child has a responsibility to provide child support (financial support) for that child. The usual amount that he or she should pay is set out in the Child Support Guidelines. The amount depends on how many children there are and what the payor parent earns.

If you HAVE a court order

First steps

1. If you are on social assistance, speak with your financial worker. If you agree, the Ministry of Social Development (or Aboriginal Affairs and Northern Development Canada, if you live on an Indian reserve) will collect child support for you.
2. If you are not on social assistance, you can enrol with the Family Maintenance Enforcement Program, which will take steps, including further court action, to enforce the order for you. The Family Maintenance Enforcement Program, also called FMEP, is free, and probably the simplest way to collect on a child support order from a reluctant payor.
3. You may qualify for legal aid representation. If you are approved for legal aid representation, a legal aid lawyer can help you collect child support.
   If you don't qualify for legal aid representation, you may wish to contact a Family Justice Centre. Counsellors at Family Justice Centres can provide information, mediation and assistance with applications involving child or spousal support in Family Court.

What happens next

Once you have registered with the Family Maintenance Enforcement Program, one of its workers will contact the other parent to see if he or she will agree to make voluntary payments. If that doesn't work, FMEP can take a number of steps against the other parent, such as garnishing pay cheques or bank accounts, intercepting Employment Insurance payments and income tax refunds, and arranging for withholding driver's licenses or passports.

If you DON'T have a court order

First steps

1. If you need a lawyer but cannot afford one on your own, see if you qualify for legal aid representation. If you qualify, the Legal Services Society will appoint a lawyer to advise you and represent you in court.
   Whether or not you qualify for legal aid representation or a lawyer through the Ministry of Social Development, you may wish to contact a Family Justice Centre. Counsellors at Family Justice Centres can provide information, mediation and assistance with applications involving child or spousal support in Family Court. However, they have no jurisdiction to help with claims for divorce, division of property, debts and other Supreme Court matters.
2. If you want to apply for maintenance in Family Court, complete an Application to Obtain an Order. You can get an application to obtain an order from any Provincial Court registry. Family Court forms and self-help information are also available online at the Family Law in BC website. Click on "Self-help guides," scroll down to "Family orders" and click on the appropriate link. If you do not feel it is safe to wait for an order, you may ask that the order be "without notice," meaning that the court will make its order without your ex-partner having a chance to be heard or being notified in advance. Without notice orders are always interim (short-term) and your ex-partner will eventually have a chance to speak to the judge before a final order is made.

What happens next

Once you have filed an application to obtain an order asking for child support, the other parent will be required to file a reply and a financial statement (or a statement of finances for FMEP matters). A date will be set for a hearing by the Family Court registry.

If the other party doesn't file a reply or financial statement, the judge may order him or her to do so or accept your evidence of what he or she is earning, without your ex's participation.

Where to get help

See the Resource List in this Guide for a list of helpful resources. Your best bets are:

• Legal aid representation, to see if you qualify for legal aid.
• Family Maintenance Enforcement Program, to enrol with the program for free.
• Family Law in BC website, for forms, self-help materials and other legal information about child and spousal support.
• Family Duty Counsel (Provincial or Supreme), for some assistance on the day you have to appear in court.
• Family Justice Centres, to make an appointment with a family justice counsellor to discuss support.
• Family LawLINE.
• Access Pro Bono, Lawyer Referral Service, and private bar lawyers.
• The Clicklaw common question "My ex stopped paying child support when he moved out of province."

Before meeting with a lawyer or advocate, complete the form Preparing for Your Interview included in this Guide. Make sure you bring copies of all documents relating to your case.

This information applies to British Columbia, Canada. Last reviewed for legal accuracy by Annie Kaderly, March 2013.

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In law, a person who relies on someone else for their support and the necessities of life. See "child," "child support," and "spousal support."

A person who is younger than the legal age of majority, 19 in British Columbia. See "age of majority."

Money paid by one parent or guardian to another parent or guardian as a contribution toward the cost of a child's living and other expenses.

A mandatory direction of the court that is binding and enforceable upon the parties to a court proceeding. An "interim order" is a temporary order made following the hearing of an interim application. A "final order" is a permanent order, made following the trial of the court proceeding or the parties' settlement, following which the only recourse open to a dissatisfied party is to appeal. Failing to abide by the terms of an order may constitute contempt of court. See "appeal," "consent order," "contempt of court," "decision" and "declaration."

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A person licensed to practice law in a particular jurisdiction by that jurisdiction's law society. See "barrister and solicitor."

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Normally referred to as the "Supreme Court of British Columbia," this court hears most of the trials in this province. The Supreme Court is a court of inherent jurisdiction and has no limits on the sorts of claims it can hear or on the sorts of orders it can make. Decisions of the Provincial Court are appealed to the Supreme Court; decisions of the Supreme Court are appealed to the Court of Appeal. See "Court of Appeal," "jurisdiction," "Provincial Court" and "Supreme Court of Canada."

In family law, an antiquated term referring to child support and spousal support. See "child support" and "spousal support."

A request to the court that it make a specific order, usually on an interim or temporary basis, also called a "chambers application" or a "motion." See also "interim application" and "relief."

A court established and staffed by the provincial government, which includes Small Claims Court, Youth Court, and Family Court. The Provincial Court is the lowest level of court in British Columbia and is restricted in the sorts of matters it can deal with. It is, however, the most accessible of the two trial courts and no fees are charged to begin or defend a family law proceeding. The Family Court of the Provincial Court cannot deal with the division of family property or any claims under the Divorce Act. See "Divorce Act," "judge" and "jurisdiction."

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A judge of the superior courts of British Columbia, being the Supreme Court and the Court of Appeal.

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