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'''Family law''' deals with the legal issues that come up when family relationships begin and end. Marriage, separation, divorce, parenting, support, dividing property, adoption, and family violence — all fall within this area of law. Learn the basics of family law.


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Family law deals with legal issues that impact families. Family breakups, divorce, getting married, adoption, and family violence all fall within this area of law. Learn the basics of family law.  
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==Understand the legal framework==
==What you should know==


===Family law deals with family issues===
===Family law deals with family issues===
Often, these issues involve couples that have been in a relationship and have now separated. But family issues can also involve people who have never been in a long-term relationship, like a couple who never dated but have a child together. They can involve people who have never been in a romantic relationship at all, like a grandparent who would like to spend time with or care for a grandchild.
Family law problems often come up when people who’ve been in a relationship separate. But family law problems can also come up for people who’ve never lived together or dated but have had a child together. They can also affect people who haven’t been in a relationship at all, like a grandparent who wants more time with their grandchild.


In BC, family law applies to people in same-sex relationships exactly as it does to people in opposite-sex relationships. There is no legal difference between heterosexual relationships and gay and lesbian relationships.
Family law applies to people in same-sex relationships the same way it does to people in opposite-sex relationships. There’s no legal difference between opposite-sex relationships and gay, lesbian, and other LGBTQ+ relationships.  


This information provides an introduction to family law and the courts that deal with family law issues. It also defines some common legal words and phrases used in family law.
This information provides an introduction to family law and the courts that deal with family law issues. It also explains some of the legal words and phrases used in family law.


===Common family law problems===
===Common family law problems===
When a couple separates, they must make many decisions. For example:
When a couple separates, they must make many decisions. For example:
*Does one spouse need financial support from the other spouse? Can the other spouse afford to pay it, and if so, how much and for how long?
 
*Who will stay in the family home? Can everybody still live together, or does someone need to move out?
* Does one person need financial help from the other? Can the other person afford to pay it? If so, how much can they afford to pay and for how long? This problem is about '''spousal support'''.
*How will property be divided? How will debts be shared?
* Who will stay in the family home? Can everybody still live there or does someone need to move out? This problem is about the '''use of family property'''.
*If there are children, where will they live? How will decisions about their care be made? How will the parents share time with the children?
* How will property be divided? How will debts be shared? This problem is about '''property and debt division'''.
*Are the children entitled to ongoing financial support from a parent? If so, which parent should pay child support and what amount?
* If there are children, where will they live? How will decisions about their care be made? How will the parents share the children’s time? This problem is about '''parenting after separation'''.
* Does child support need to be paid? If so, which parent should pay child support and how much? This problem is about '''child support'''.
* After parents separate, can one parent move away to another town or province, with or without the children? This problem is about '''relocation'''.


===Different rules for different relationships===
===Different rules for different relationships===
Family law deals with all of these decisions and more. But not all couples need to deal with all these issues. The decisions a couple must make and the law that applies change depending on the type of relationship the couple is in.
Family law deals with all of these common family law problems and more. But not all family law problems are important to all families. It really depends on the type of relationship.
 
Family law is about four types of relationships:


Family law involves four types of relationship:
* '''Married spouses'''. Married spouses are legally married and have to get '''divorced''' to end their legal relationship.
*'''Married spouses''': Married couples are legally married and require a divorce to end their legal relationship.
* '''Unmarried spouses'''. Unmarried spouses, also known as '''common-law partners''', have lived together in a “marriage-like relationship” for at least two years. Except when it comes to property and debt division, the term also includes people who’ve lived together for ''less than two years'' but have had a child together. Unmarried spouses ''don’t'' need a divorce to end their legal relationship. It ends when they separate.
*'''Unmarried spouses''': Unmarried spouses, also called '''common-law spouses''', have lived together in a “marriage-like relationship” for at least two years. For spousal support claims, it includes people who have lived together for less than two years and have had a child together. Unmarried spouses don’t require a divorce to end their legal relationship. Their relationship ends when they separate.
* '''Parents'''. Parents are people who have had a child together, regardless of the nature of their relationship with each other. Parents can be married spouses, unmarried spouses, in a dating relationship, or not in a relationship with each other at all. Parents can also have had a child by adoption or assisted reproduction. Or they might have helped a family to have a child by assisted reproduction, by donating eggs or sperm, or by being a surrogate mother.
*'''Parents''': Parents have had a child together and can be married spouses, unmarried spouses, in a dating relationship, or not in a relationship with each other at all. Parents can also be people who have had a child by adoption or assisted reproduction, or people who have helped a couple to have a child by assisted reproduction, by donating eggs or sperm, or by being a surrogate mother.
* '''Child’s caregivers'''. People who have a significant role in a child’s life but aren’t the child’s parents.
*'''Child’s caregivers''': People who have a significant role in a child’s life but aren’t the child’s parents.


===Family law legislation===
===Family law legislation===
Family law involves two different laws that apply depending on the type of relationship in play.
Two different family laws may apply, depending on the type of relationship.


====Divorce Act====
====Divorce Act====
As a federal law, the ''[http://canlii.ca/t/7vbw Divorce Act]'' applies throughout Canada. The ''Divorce Act'' only applies to people who are married to each other or who used to be married to each other.
The federal [https://www.canlii.org/en/ca/laws/stat/rsc-1985-c-3-2nd-supp/latest/rsc-1985-c-3-2nd-supp.html ''Divorce Act''] applies throughout Canada. This law only applies to people who are married to each other or who used to be married to each other. It talks about:
 
* divorce
* parenting after separation, including how children’s time is shared between married spouses
* child support
* spousal support
* relocation


====Family Law Act====
====Family Law Act====
The ''[http://canlii.ca/t/8q3k Family Law Act]'' is a BC law that applies to married spouses, unmarried spouses, parents, and a child’s caregivers. Not all of the ''Family Law Act'' applies to all of these relationships.
The [https://www.canlii.org/en/bc/laws/stat/sbc-2011-c-25/latest/sbc-2011-c-25.html ''Family Law Act''] is a BC law that applies to married spouses, unmarried spouses, parents, and children’s caregivers. It talks about:
*The parts that talk about child support and the care of the child apply to everyone.  
 
*The parts that talk about spousal support apply only to married spouses and to unmarried spouses who claim spousal support within two years of the date they separate.  
* parenting after separation, including how children’s time is shared between guardians and people who are not guardians
*The parts that talk about dividing property and debt only apply to married spouses and to unmarried spouses who have lived together in a marriage-like relationship for at least two years.
* child support
* spousal support
* dividing property and debt
* relocation
* court orders that might be needed to protect people
* court orders that might be needed to protect property
 
But, different parts of this law apply to different people, depending on the type of relationship:
 
* The parts that talk about child support and the care of children apply to everyone who is a parent or a guardian.
* The parts that talk about spousal support apply only to married and unmarried spouses.
* The parts that talk about dividing property and debt apply to married spouses as well as unmarried spouses, but only to those who’ve lived together in a marriage-like relationship ''for at least two years''.


====Understanding the legislation====
This chart shows which law applies to whom and for what purpose:
This chart shows which law applies to whom and for what purpose:
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!style="width: 15%" align="center"|Married Spouses
!style="width: 15%" align="center"|Unmarried Spouses
!style="width: 15%" align="center"|Parents
!style="width: 15%" align="center"|Child's Caregivers
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|align="left"|Divorce||align="center"| X ||align="center"|  ||align="center"|  ||align="center"|
!  !! '''Married spouses''' !! '''Unmarried spouses''' !! '''Parents''' !! '''Child’s caregivers'''
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|align="left"|Custody (''Divorce Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"|   ||align="center"|   ||align="center"|  
| ''Divorce Act'' || Yes || No || No || No
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|-
|align="left"|Access (''Divorce Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"|   ||align="center"|   ||align="center"|  
| Divorce || Yes || No || No || No
|-
|-
|align="left"|Guardianship (''Family Law Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"| ||align="center"| X
| ''Family Law Act'' || Yes || Yes || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Parental responsibilities and parenting time (''Family Law Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X
| Guardianship of children || Yes || Yes || Yes || No
|-
|-
|align="left"|Contact with a child (''Family Law Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X
| Making decisions about children || Yes || Yes || Yes || No
|-
|-
|align="left"|Child support (''Divorce Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"|   ||align="center"|  ||align="center"|  
| Parenting time and contact with children || Yes || Yes || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Child support (''Family Law Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X
| Child support || Yes || Yes || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Spousal support (''Divorce Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"|   ||align="center"|   ||align="center"|  
| Spousal support || Yes || Yes || No || No
|-
|-
|align="left"|Spousal support (''Family Law Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"|  ||align="center"|  
| Dividing property and debt || Yes || Yes, for some* || No || No
|-
|-
|align="left"|Property and debt (''Family Law Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"|  ||align="center"|  
| Orders protecting people || Yes || Yes || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Protection orders (''Family Law Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X
| Orders protecting property || Yes || Yes, for some* || No || No
|}
|}
<sup>*</sup>Orders about dividing property and debt and protecting property can come into play for unmarried spouses, but only if they've lived together in a marriage-like relationship for at least two years.
===Resolving family law problems===
You can deal with family law problems in ways that don’t involve going to court. Options include:


===Resolving family law issues===
* '''Negotiation'''. You and your ex talk about your legal problems and try to agree on as many of those problems as possible.
Family law issues can be resolved in ways that don’t involve going to court. Options include:
* '''Mediation'''. You and your ex meet with a trained, neutral person (called a mediator) who helps you talk to each other and agree on as many of your legal problems as possible.
*'''Negotiation''': Where the parties discuss the issues to try to reach an agreement.  
* '''Collaborative negotiation'''. You and your ex hire specially-trained lawyers and agree to do everything you can to resolve your legal problems without going to court.
*'''Mediation''': Where the parties meet with a neutral person (a mediator), who helps them find a solution they agree on.
* '''Arbitration'''. You and your ex hire a trained, neutral person (called an arbitrator) to make a decision resolving your legal problems. Hiring an arbitrator is like hiring a private judge.
*'''Collaborative practice''': A kind of negotiation where each party has their own lawyer and agree they will do everything possible to reach a settlement without going to court.
* '''Parenting coordination'''. If you and your ex already have a plan about parenting, you can hire a parenting coordinator to help resolve continuing problems about parenting. A parenting coordinator is a neutral person who tries to help you agree on a resolution, like a mediator, but they can make a decision, like an arbitrator, if you can’t agree.
*'''Arbitration''': Where the parties hire an arbitrator to act as their personal judge to make decisions about their dispute they will be bound by.


For more on alternatives to court, see our information on [[Mediation and Collaborative Settlement Processes (Script 111)|mediation and collaborative practice (no. 111)]].
For more on resolving family law issues outside of court, [[Mediation, Collaborative Negotiation, and Arbitration|see our information on mediation, collaborative negotiation, and arbitration]].


If parties can’t resolve their problems using these approaches, they may have to go to court to have a judge resolve their problems.  
If you can’t resolve your problems using these processes, you may have to go to court to have a judge make a decision.


==Going to court==
===Going to court===
There are two courts that deal with family law issues, Family Court and Supreme Court.  
There are two courts in BC that make decisions about family law problems: Provincial Court (often called Family Court) and Supreme Court.  


'''Family Court''' is a division of the BC Provincial Court. It doesn’t charge court filing fees and its rules and forms are simplified for people who use the court. Family Court can deal only with issues under the ''Family Law Act'', such as guardianship, child care, child support, and spousal support. For more on this court, see our information on [[Family Court (Script 110)|Family Court (no. 110)]].
'''Family Court''' is a division of the Provincial Court. Family Court can deal only with some issues under the ''Family Law Act'': guardianship, parenting after separation, child support, and spousal support. It doesn’t charge court filing fees and uses simplified rules and forms. [[Provincial (Family) Court|Learn more in our information on Family Court]].


'''Supreme Court''' rules are more complicated and the court charges fees to file certain documents and schedule certain hearings. But Supreme Court can deal with issues under both the ''Divorce Act'' and the ''Family Law Act''. So Supreme Court can deal with all the same issues as Family Court, plus divorce and the division of property and debt.
The '''Supreme Court''' can deal with all issues under the ''Family Law Act'' and all issues under the ''Divorce Act''. Its rules are complicated. Also, it charges fees to file documents and schedule certain hearings.  


This chart shows which court deals with which family law problems:
{| class="wikitable"
{| class="wikitable"
!style="width: 25%" align="center"|
!style="width: 10%" align="center"|Supreme Court
!style="width: 10%" align="center"|Family Court
|-
|-
|align="left"|''Family Law Act''||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X 
!  !! Family Court !! Supreme Court
|-
|-
|align="left"|''Divorce Act''||align="center"| X ||align="center"|  
| ''Divorce Act'' || No || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Divorce||align="center"| X ||align="center"|  
| Divorce || No || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Custody (''Divorce Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"|
| ''Family Law Act'' || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Guardianship (''Family Law Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X
| Guardianship of children || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Access (''Divorce Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X
| Making decisions about children || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Parental responsibilitis and parenting time (''Family Law Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"|
| Parenting time and contact with children || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Contact with a child (''Family Law Act'')||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X 
| Child support || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Child support||align="center"| X ||align="center"|
| Spousal support || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Spousal support||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X 
| Dividing property and debt || No || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Property and debt||align="center"| X ||align="center"| 
| Orders protecting people || Yes || Yes
|-
|-
|align="left"|Protection orders||align="center"| X ||align="center"| X
| Orders protecting property || No || Yes
|}
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Here are definitions of some key words and phrases used in family law.
Here are definitions of some key words and phrases used in family law.


'''Separation''' is the breakdown of a romantic relationship. Separation usually means a couple have moved out and are living apart from each other, but it is possible to be separated while continuing to live under the same roof. See our information on [[Separation and Separation Agreements (Script 115)|separation and separation agreements (no. 115)]] and [[Separation: Deciding Who Will Move Out (Script 116)|deciding who will move out (no. 116)]].  
'''Separation''' is the breakdown of a romantic relationship. Separation usually means at least one of the spouses has moved out. But it’s possible for people to be separated while still living under the same roof. To learn more, [[Separation and Separation Agreements|see our information on separation and separation agreements]] and [[Deciding Who Will Move Out When You Separate|deciding who will move out]].  
 
'''Divorce''' is the end of a marriage by a court order. [[Requirements for Divorce and Annulment|Here, we explain the requirements for divorce]].


'''Divorce''' is the legal end of a marriage by a court order. We explain the [[Requirements for Divorce and Annulment (Script 120)|requirements for divorce in no. 120]].  
'''Child''' is any person under 19, the age of majority in BC. It may include a person who is an adult child for the purposes of child support. The Divorce Act uses the term “child of the marriage” when it talks about children.  


'''Child''' is any person under the age of 19, the age of majority in British Columbia. It may include an adult child for the purposes of child support. The ''Divorce Act'' uses the term “child of the marriage”.  
'''Parent''' is someone who is the birth parent of a child, the adopted parent of a child, a parent by assisted reproduction, and, in some cases, a donor of eggs or sperm, and a surrogate mother. A parent is usually, but not always, a guardian of their child.


'''Parent''' is someone who is the birth parent of a child, the adopted parent of a child, a parent by assisted reproduction, or, in some cases, a donor of eggs or sperm and a surrogate mother.
'''Guardian''' is someone who has the right to make decisions about children. Most of the time a parent is a guardian of their child.


Several terms are involved when talking of who the children should live with and how decisions about their care will be made. Under the ''Divorce Act'', this is called '''custody'''. Under the ''Family Law Act'', this is called '''parenting arrangements''', which includes guardianship, parental responsibilities, and parenting time.  
The two main laws use different terms to talk about how parents make decisions about children. The ''Divorce Act'' talks about '''decision-making responsibility'''. This includes making all significant decisions about a child. The ''Family Law Act'' talks about '''parental responsibilities'''. This includes making significant decisions about a child and often day-to-day decisions as well.


'''Guardianship''' is the right of a parent (or a person appointed by the court) to care for a child and have parental responsibilities. '''Parental responsibilities''' are decisions about the upbringing and care of a child made by the child’s guardians. '''Parenting time''' is a guardian’s time with a child, usually fixed by a schedule.  
'''Parenting time''' is the time a spouse or guardian has with a child. Parenting time is usually divided between spouses or guardians on a fixed schedule.


The time a person who is not a guardian has with a child is called '''contact''' under ''Family Law Act'' and '''access''' under the ''Divorce Act''.  
'''Contact''' is the time someone who isn’t a spouse or guardian has with a child. Contact is usually provided on a fixed schedule.


For more on these concepts involving care of the children, see our information on [[Custody and Access, Guardianship, Parenting Arrangements and Contact (Script 142)|custody, guardianship and parenting arrangements and contact (no. 142)]].
For more on these terms about parenting after separation, [[Custody and Access, Guardianship, Parenting Arrangements, and Contact|see our information on guardianship, parenting arrangements, and contact]].


'''Child support''' is money paid by one parent to the other for the financial support of their child. We explain [[Child Support (Script 117)|child support]] in no. 117.
'''Child support''' is money usually paid by one parent to the other to help raise their child. [[Child Support (No. 117)|Here, we explain child support]].


'''Spousal support''' is money one spouse pays to the other to help with expenses. We explain [[Spousal Support (Script 123)|spousal support]] in no. 123.
'''Spousal support''' is money one spouse pays to the other to help them financially after a separation or divorce. [[Spousal Support (No. 123)|Here, we explain spousal support]].


==Get help==
==Who can help==


===With more information===
===With more information===
The wikibook '''''JP Boyd on Family Law''''', hosted by Courthouse Libraries BC, provides comprehensive information on family law, including sample court forms and how-to information.
The '''Family Law website''' from Legal Aid BC features self-help information and guides for people in family disputes.
:Web: [http://wiki.clicklaw.bc.ca/index.php/JP_Boyd_on_Family_Law wiki.clicklaw.bc.ca]
 
The Legal Services Society's '''Family Law in BC website''' features self-help information for people in family disputes.
:Web: [http://www.familylaw.lss.bc.ca/ familylaw.lss.bc.ca]
 
 
 
[updated October 2018]


'''The above was last reviewed for legal accuracy by [https://www.southcoastlaw.ca/renee-aldana/ Renée Aldana], South Coast Law Group.'''
* [https://family.legalaid.bc.ca/ Visit website]


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This information applies to British Columbia, Canada. Last reviewed for legal accuracy by JP Boyd, QC, Boyd Arbitration Chambers in March 2021.

Family law deals with the legal issues that come up when family relationships begin and end. Marriage, separation, divorce, parenting, support, dividing property, adoption, and family violence — all fall within this area of law. Learn the basics of family law.

Alert!

This information has been updated to reflect changes to the Divorce Act that took effect on March 1, 2021.

What you should know

Family law deals with family issues

Family law problems often come up when people who’ve been in a relationship separate. But family law problems can also come up for people who’ve never lived together or dated but have had a child together. They can also affect people who haven’t been in a relationship at all, like a grandparent who wants more time with their grandchild.

Family law applies to people in same-sex relationships the same way it does to people in opposite-sex relationships. There’s no legal difference between opposite-sex relationships and gay, lesbian, and other LGBTQ+ relationships.

This information provides an introduction to family law and the courts that deal with family law issues. It also explains some of the legal words and phrases used in family law.

Common family law problems

When a couple separates, they must make many decisions. For example:

  • Does one person need financial help from the other? Can the other person afford to pay it? If so, how much can they afford to pay and for how long? This problem is about spousal support.
  • Who will stay in the family home? Can everybody still live there or does someone need to move out? This problem is about the use of family property.
  • How will property be divided? How will debts be shared? This problem is about property and debt division.
  • If there are children, where will they live? How will decisions about their care be made? How will the parents share the children’s time? This problem is about parenting after separation.
  • Does child support need to be paid? If so, which parent should pay child support and how much? This problem is about child support.
  • After parents separate, can one parent move away to another town or province, with or without the children? This problem is about relocation.

Different rules for different relationships

Family law deals with all of these common family law problems and more. But not all family law problems are important to all families. It really depends on the type of relationship.

Family law is about four types of relationships:

  • Married spouses. Married spouses are legally married and have to get divorced to end their legal relationship.
  • Unmarried spouses. Unmarried spouses, also known as common-law partners, have lived together in a “marriage-like relationship” for at least two years. Except when it comes to property and debt division, the term also includes people who’ve lived together for less than two years but have had a child together. Unmarried spouses don’t need a divorce to end their legal relationship. It ends when they separate.
  • Parents. Parents are people who have had a child together, regardless of the nature of their relationship with each other. Parents can be married spouses, unmarried spouses, in a dating relationship, or not in a relationship with each other at all. Parents can also have had a child by adoption or assisted reproduction. Or they might have helped a family to have a child by assisted reproduction, by donating eggs or sperm, or by being a surrogate mother.
  • Child’s caregivers. People who have a significant role in a child’s life but aren’t the child’s parents.

Family law legislation

Two different family laws may apply, depending on the type of relationship.

Divorce Act

The federal Divorce Act applies throughout Canada. This law only applies to people who are married to each other or who used to be married to each other. It talks about:

  • divorce
  • parenting after separation, including how children’s time is shared between married spouses
  • child support
  • spousal support
  • relocation

Family Law Act

The Family Law Act is a BC law that applies to married spouses, unmarried spouses, parents, and children’s caregivers. It talks about:

  • parenting after separation, including how children’s time is shared between guardians and people who are not guardians
  • child support
  • spousal support
  • dividing property and debt
  • relocation
  • court orders that might be needed to protect people
  • court orders that might be needed to protect property

But, different parts of this law apply to different people, depending on the type of relationship:

  • The parts that talk about child support and the care of children apply to everyone who is a parent or a guardian.
  • The parts that talk about spousal support apply only to married and unmarried spouses.
  • The parts that talk about dividing property and debt apply to married spouses as well as unmarried spouses, but only to those who’ve lived together in a marriage-like relationship for at least two years.

Understanding the legislation

This chart shows which law applies to whom and for what purpose:

Married spouses Unmarried spouses Parents Child’s caregivers
Divorce Act Yes No No No
Divorce Yes No No No
Family Law Act Yes Yes Yes Yes
Guardianship of children Yes Yes Yes No
Making decisions about children Yes Yes Yes No
Parenting time and contact with children Yes Yes Yes Yes
Child support Yes Yes Yes Yes
Spousal support Yes Yes No No
Dividing property and debt Yes Yes, for some* No No
Orders protecting people Yes Yes Yes Yes
Orders protecting property Yes Yes, for some* No No

*Orders about dividing property and debt and protecting property can come into play for unmarried spouses, but only if they've lived together in a marriage-like relationship for at least two years.

Resolving family law problems

You can deal with family law problems in ways that don’t involve going to court. Options include:

  • Negotiation. You and your ex talk about your legal problems and try to agree on as many of those problems as possible.
  • Mediation. You and your ex meet with a trained, neutral person (called a mediator) who helps you talk to each other and agree on as many of your legal problems as possible.
  • Collaborative negotiation. You and your ex hire specially-trained lawyers and agree to do everything you can to resolve your legal problems without going to court.
  • Arbitration. You and your ex hire a trained, neutral person (called an arbitrator) to make a decision resolving your legal problems. Hiring an arbitrator is like hiring a private judge.
  • Parenting coordination. If you and your ex already have a plan about parenting, you can hire a parenting coordinator to help resolve continuing problems about parenting. A parenting coordinator is a neutral person who tries to help you agree on a resolution, like a mediator, but they can make a decision, like an arbitrator, if you can’t agree.

For more on resolving family law issues outside of court, see our information on mediation, collaborative negotiation, and arbitration.

If you can’t resolve your problems using these processes, you may have to go to court to have a judge make a decision.

Going to court

There are two courts in BC that make decisions about family law problems: Provincial Court (often called Family Court) and Supreme Court.

Family Court is a division of the Provincial Court. Family Court can deal only with some issues under the Family Law Act: guardianship, parenting after separation, child support, and spousal support. It doesn’t charge court filing fees and uses simplified rules and forms. Learn more in our information on Family Court.

The Supreme Court can deal with all issues under the Family Law Act and all issues under the Divorce Act. Its rules are complicated. Also, it charges fees to file documents and schedule certain hearings.

This chart shows which court deals with which family law problems:

Family Court Supreme Court
Divorce Act No Yes
Divorce No Yes
Family Law Act Yes Yes
Guardianship of children Yes Yes
Making decisions about children Yes Yes
Parenting time and contact with children Yes Yes
Child support Yes Yes
Spousal support Yes Yes
Dividing property and debt No Yes
Orders protecting people Yes Yes
Orders protecting property No Yes

Key words and phrases in family law

Here are definitions of some key words and phrases used in family law.

Separation is the breakdown of a romantic relationship. Separation usually means at least one of the spouses has moved out. But it’s possible for people to be separated while still living under the same roof. To learn more, see our information on separation and separation agreements and deciding who will move out.

Divorce is the end of a marriage by a court order. Here, we explain the requirements for divorce.

Child is any person under 19, the age of majority in BC. It may include a person who is an adult child for the purposes of child support. The Divorce Act uses the term “child of the marriage” when it talks about children.

Parent is someone who is the birth parent of a child, the adopted parent of a child, a parent by assisted reproduction, and, in some cases, a donor of eggs or sperm, and a surrogate mother. A parent is usually, but not always, a guardian of their child.

Guardian is someone who has the right to make decisions about children. Most of the time a parent is a guardian of their child.

The two main laws use different terms to talk about how parents make decisions about children. The Divorce Act talks about decision-making responsibility. This includes making all significant decisions about a child. The Family Law Act talks about parental responsibilities. This includes making significant decisions about a child and often day-to-day decisions as well.

Parenting time is the time a spouse or guardian has with a child. Parenting time is usually divided between spouses or guardians on a fixed schedule.

Contact is the time someone who isn’t a spouse or guardian has with a child. Contact is usually provided on a fixed schedule.

For more on these terms about parenting after separation, see our information on guardianship, parenting arrangements, and contact.

Child support is money usually paid by one parent to the other to help raise their child. Here, we explain child support.

Spousal support is money one spouse pays to the other to help them financially after a separation or divorce. Here, we explain spousal support.

Who can help

With more information

The Family Law website from Legal Aid BC features self-help information and guides for people in family disputes.

The wikibook JP Boyd on Family Law, hosted by Courthouse Libraries BC, provides comprehensive information on family law, including sample court forms and how-to information.

Free and low-cost legal help

Options for legal help include legal aid, pro bono services, legal clinics, and advocates. See our information on free and low-cost legal help.

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