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}}The previous section in this chapter talked about the emotional aspects of separation, and how they can affect the choices we make to deal with the legal consequences of separation. The next section, "[[Separation and the Law on Separation]]", talks about those legal consequences in a lot more detail, but this section is first going to talk about the importance of good behaviour after separation. | }}The previous section in this chapter talked about the emotional aspects of separation, and how they can affect the choices we make to deal with the legal consequences of separation. The next section, "[[Separation and the Law on Separation]]", talks about those legal consequences in a lot more detail, but this section is first going to talk about the importance of boundaries and good behaviour after separation. | ||
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==Good behaviour, bad behaviour== | ==Good behaviour, bad behaviour== | ||
It is so very, very tempting to lash out at your ex when a relationship ends, especially if you didn't see it coming or there was something embarrassing about your separation, like an affair. You shouldn't. Let me tell you why. | |||
First, by cranking up the emotional temperature, you increase the likelihood that your family law problems will be resolved in court. While there's nothing necessarily wrong with that, resolving problems in court takes longer and costs more money than resolving them any other way. | |||
Secondly, the two key predictors of children's adaptation to their parents' separation are | |||
case of w slagging H online, damages awarded | case of w slagging H online, damages awarded | ||
