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Difference between revisions of "Introduction to Family Law in British Columbia"

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===Separation and divorce===
===Separation and divorce===


You don't need a legal document to separate, and you don't need to see a lawyer or a judge to separate. You just leave the relationship or announce that it's over and then behave like it's over. There is no such thing as a ''legal separation'' in British Columbia.
''You don't need a legal document to separate, and you don't need to see a lawyer or a judge to separate.'' You just leave the relationship or announce that it's over and then behave like it's over. There is no such thing as a "legal separation" in British Columbia.


For unmarried spouses and other unmarried couples, their relationship is over the moment they separate. That's it, it's done! There is no such thing as a ''common-law marriage'', and unmarried spouses don't need to get divorced.
For unmarried spouses and other unmarried adults, their relationship is over the moment they separate. That's it, it's done! There is no such thing as a "common-law marriage," and unmarried spouses never need to get divorced.


For a marriage to end, however, married spouses must divorce, and that means they must get a court order saying that they are divorced. A married couple can be separated for many years but still be married if they haven't gotten a divorce order.
For a marriage to legally end, however, married spouses must divorce, and that means they must get a court order saying that they are divorced. A married couple can be separated for many years but still be married if they haven't gotten a divorce order.


Sometimes married people don't get around to getting a divorce for many, many years. That's fine. The only thing a separated married person can't do that an unmarried person can do is marry again. Separated married people can date someone else, live with someone else, be in a unmarried relationship with someone else, have property in their own name, have bank accounts and credit cards in their own name, and so on.
Sometimes married people don't get around to getting a divorce for many, many years. That's fine. The only thing a separated married person can't do that an unmarried person can do is marry again. Separated married people can date someone else, live with someone else, be in a unmarried relationship with someone else, have property in their own name, have bank accounts and credit cards in their own name, and so on.
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There is only one reason why a court <span class="noglossary">will</span> make a divorce order: it believes that the marriage has broken down. The breakdown of a marriage can be shown in one of three ways:
There is only one reason why a court <span class="noglossary">will</span> make a divorce order: it believes that the marriage has broken down. The breakdown of a marriage can be shown in one of three ways:


#the couple have separated and have stayed separated for more than one year,
#the spouses have separated and have stayed separated for more than one year,
#a spouse has had sex with someone other than their spouse, called ''adultery'', or
#a spouse has had sex with someone other than the other spouse, called ''adultery'', or
#a spouse has been verbally, emotionally or physically abusive to the other spouse, which is what the ''[[Divorce Act]]'' means by ''cruelty''.
#a spouse has been verbally, emotionally or physically abusive to the other spouse, which is what the ''[[Divorce Act]]'' means by ''cruelty''.


To get a divorce order, you have to start a court proceeding. You don't have to ask the court for anything else except a divorce, if a divorce is all you need. When a couple agrees to get a divorce, they can get a divorce using the do-it-yourself desk order process, and they won't have to go in front of a judge ever.
To get a divorce order, you have to start a court proceeding. You don't have to ask the court for anything else except a divorce, if a divorce is all you need. When a married couple agrees to get a divorce, they can get a divorce using the do-it-yourself desk order process, and they won't have to go in front of a judge ever.


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